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Avoid relationship penalties by creating both individual and joint bank accounts.
Merging lives often means merging finances. But it’s best to see eye to eye on money management before pooling your income. The “three-pot money system” is a wise option for many gay couples, largely because it’s a combination of accounts -- mine, yours, and ours. Create a joint fund for shared living expenses and financial goals like buying a house. But maintain your individual bank accounts for discretionary spending. This establishes a unified approach to significant joint assets yet still allows you to spend, say, $127 on Acqua di Parma cologne without necessarily drawing your partner’s ire. Each partner can contribute 50% of the mutual pot, or you could devise another ratio. “This system is also practical when there’s a disproportionate level in income,” says Helen Maynard, principal of Affine Financial Services. “For example, if Brad makes an annual salary of $210,000 and Daniel earns $90,000, they might fund the joint account with a 70-30 split to make things more equitable.”
Trading Faux FunSports aficionados aren’t the only fanatics to have fantasy team games. Fiscal nerds have long managed their own fantasy stock portfolios with virtual trading floors like WallStreetSurvivor.com. For neophyte traders, WeSeed.com is one of my favorite sites. This free site simulates the online trading experience, helping you develop your investing skills and learn about the market without losing real money. Since man cannot retire on mutual funds alone, every portfolio should have a few individual stocks for diversification. WeSeed recommends that you start with your personal interests. Let’s say you’re into gay rodeo and boot-cut jeans: WeSeed helps you translate your country-western affinities into stocks. Buy 1,000 shares of VF Corp. -- maker of those tight Wranglers -- and watch to see if your investment pays off.
In Defense of Luxury
A recession invariably puts conspicuous consumption on hold. But even though thrift and prudence are prevailing buzzwords with financial advisers, luxury tempts those trying to live within their means. “An occasional splurge here and there is part of what makes life interesting,” says Paula Gregorowicz, a life and business coach for lesbians. “As long as it’s tempered with enjoying what you have in the present as well. That’s the Holy Grail of financial planning -- finding that balance between splurging periodically because life needs to be enjoyed for our own well-being and saving for the future. You can’t constantly deprive yourself, or it’ll only backfire in the long run.”How then should you defend what you spend on nonnecessities? We shouldn’t have to defend our luxuries of choice. Consider the gym membership that many gays see as nonnegotiable. Technically it’s defined as a luxury, since luxuries are optional. But the label is irrelevant. If you can afford $89 a month to pump iron at Crunch and it brings you joy or some other benefit, go for it.
If working out is important to you but you can’t really afford it, then make a trade-off with other items in your budget. Remember that personal finance is just that, personal.
By Nina Smith


As the most robust season of the year for most real estate markets comes to an end, those whose properties have not yet sold face challenging decisions. Many eager buyers who came out of the woodwork in springtime and then finalized their purchases over the summer are now gone from the landscape, and less buyers means greater competition for sellers whose listings are languishing.
Most people shopping for a home this year are keenly aware that a special $8,000 new home buyer credit is being offered as part of the government’s emergency economic stimulus legislation.
The largest Internet-based real estate company on the planet, GayRealEstate.com, has just released its 2009 picks in the category of “Top 5 Gay Getaways” and the timing could not be better. Prices are down, interest rates are still attractively low, and summertime is finally here. That makes this the ideal time to browse around for the perfect seasonal getaway in a spectacular GLBT vacation destination.
Guest Author: Lara Sawyer
Guest Author: Elizabeth Williams
Guest Author: Michael Redbourn
Late last year the National Association of Realtors (NAR) predicted that if rates hit 4.5 percent because of proposed emergency government programs to pump cash into banks, it could inspire as many as half a million home sales. But even without the specific kind of aid that the NAR recommended, mortgage rates have been falling for months. Now rates on many of the most popular home financing products are below five percent and are beginning to close the distance on that incredibly affordable 4.5 percent target. Moody's Economy recently predicted that interest rates would likely hit that level by the middle of 2009 and continue dropping to a low of 4.37 percent in the second quarter.
Saving money is now back in vogue, especially when it applies to real estate, but homeowners still want to spruce up their houses – either to sell them faster or to enjoy them more. Those who know how to do small home improvements on a shoestring budget can reap big rewards and benefits in a variety of ways.
The Federal Housing Administration (FHA) has seen a surge in demand for its loan products as the cost of other non-FHA loans have increased and their availability has diminished dramatically. So an FHA loan may be the best option for anyone buying or refinancing in 2009.
To buy while others are selling has long been celebrated as a savvy way to shop. But these days it is also possible to buy without hardly any competition from other bargain hunters, which makes it even easier to make a wise and lucrative investment.
Guest Author: MIKE SELVON
Guest Author: John Grant
Each year we choose our Gay Ghetto Top 10 by cross-analyzing demographics against real estate sales data to discover those especially prized metropolitan areas throughout the USA that are most in vogue with the diverse GLBT community. When the number crunching is over, we usually have 10 distinct winners, individually ranked by virtue of their popularity. But for 2008 we have some unique and special surprises – including three 2-way ties and a 3-way tie. Our top 10 are so outstanding, in other words, that they rate higher than ever.
To practice real estate in the USA means to first go to real estate school, where much of the curriculum is devoted to studying – and learning how to abide by – Federal Fair Housing Law. The Architectural Barriers Act, the Americans with Disabilities Act, the Age Discrimination Act, and half a dozen Presidential Executive Orders all provide various kinds of protection and legal rights that fall under the broad category of Fair Housing Law...
The Federal Housing Administration (FHA) has already stepped into a greater role as part of the government’s economic stimulus and real estate revitalization effort. The agency has recently experienced a substantial increase in the number of conventional borrowers refinancing into FHA-supported products. Refinancing business has tripled within the past two years at the FHA, as consumers seek more affordable loans with smaller down payments and lower interest rates.
As the first quarter of 2008 winds down and the warm vacation season approaches, the outlook for summer home buying is the brightest it has been in several years. In fact, 2008 may be the best time to buy a vacation home since 2002.
The market for homes across the USA has never been more challenging for homeowners trying to sell, nor more mind-boggling for buyers shopping among the historically overwhelming inventory of discounted listings. At the same time, mortgage lenders are more stringent than ever due to painful losses due to delinquencies and foreclosures, so it is important to write purchase offers on houses that can hold up to mortgage company and appraiser scrutiny. But beyond the initial sale of a home, legitimate buyer concerns arise regarding the condition of the home – and whether it will continue to provide a problem-free experience after the keys change hands.
The word “candidate” derives from the word “candid”, and politicians running for office this year have learned that voters prefer frank talk, not a sales pitch. The same is true for homeowners shopping for a mortgage. As we prepare for springtime – which is historically the best time to buy a home – it is appropriate to talk about ways to weed out the hype about exotic residential mortgages in favor of old-fashioned fixed rate loans.
Guest Author: Robert
In today's world, most of America is in debt. If you don't want to be a part of this crowd, it's important that you start to save your money as soon as possible to get out of that negative hole. If you're already on a budget plan, that's great. If not, it's time that you jot down these helpful tips and start working on them.
Guest Author: Bernard Pragides
